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How One Principal Builds Strong Relationships

An award-winning principal shares how she navigates social and emotional learning and community building at school.

May 23, 2023

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Courtesy of Carise Echols

Forging relationships with students, staff, and caregivers is critical to the success of any school leader. But what does relationship building really look like in action? How can leaders operationalize their educational missions to foster genuine support and collaboration in their learning environments?

These questions feel especially urgent in the wake of the pandemic, as many schools are encountering challenges related to social and emotional learning (SEL), and nearly 55 percent of teachers are considering leaving the profession. With so much in flux, cultivating a strong school culture is critical to creating dependable, supportive spaces for both learners and teachers. 

That鈥檚 why I spoke with Carise Echols, currently principal at and recipient of the 2022 NAESP for the state of Arkansas. The award is given to leaders who improve processes at their school and make meaningful contributions to their team, and Echols鈥檚 work demonstrates particular expertise in the realms of social and emotional learning, staff development, and community building. 

Here鈥檚 what Echols had to say about the power of relationships in school leadership and the strategies other leaders can use to take a similar approach.

BRITTANY COLLINS: How would you describe your approach to school leadership?

CARISE ECHOLS: A good principal never forgets what it鈥檚 like to be in the classroom. I strive to be a principal who is in the forefront with teachers鈥攊t鈥檚 about collaboration. I want to take things I鈥檝e learned from people in my life, teachers I鈥檝e had, and expand those lessons beyond the classroom.

COLLINS: Who was an impactful teacher for you? 

ECHOLS: Beth Shanks鈥攕he was my fourth-grade teacher. She passed away a few months ago. She was the teacher I kept in communication with鈥攖he teacher who showed up at my first teaching job with a gift in hand. She came to my wedding.  

The number one thing that stands out to me as her legacy would be her kindness. I remember getting a certificate from her for prettiest handwriting鈥攕he found something about each student that was unique to them. And that鈥檚 something I try to instill in my teachers, and do for my teachers.

COLLINS: How do you use that approach with teachers?

ECHOLS: As a first-year principal, my number one goal is to have everyone get to know me as much as I am getting to know them, to build trust as their leader.

I have a staff shout-out board in our teachers鈥 lounge where I write quick notes to teachers and set the trend for others to do so, too. It鈥檚 full now, from teachers complimenting other teachers, custodians, and staff. 

I write cards to stick in their boxes. And each teacher has a QR code on the back of their door that I can scan to give them feedback and encouragement: 鈥淚 love how you did this today鈥 or 鈥淚 enjoy having you here as a teacher.鈥

At faculty meetings, I give shout-outs to showcase things I see teachers doing. Sometimes another teacher says, 鈥淗ey, that鈥檚 such a cool lesson. I would love for my colleague to showcase that at a faculty meeting.鈥 

COLLINS: Turning now to students, how do social and emotional learning challenges manifest at your school? And what interventions have you tried?

ECHOLS: We鈥檙e seeing this phenomenon of 鈥淚鈥檓 upset, but I don鈥檛 really know why I鈥檓 upset or how to express it other than crying or maybe throwing something.鈥

As a district, state, and world, we could do more [to help young people]. Here at school, we use an SEL program given to us by the state, and our counselor visits various classes weekly.

We also have character words of the month鈥斺渃ourage鈥 is a recent example鈥攁nd we teach lessons in connection with the word.

And we do positive office referrals: So often, in books and movies, the principal鈥檚 office is where you go when you鈥檙e in trouble. Instead, when students have demonstrated positive behavior, they鈥檙e nominated to visit me for a celebration. 

We also have a book vending machine where students can earn golden tokens and get a new book for positive behavior or academic excellence. 

COLLINS: It sounds like you鈥檙e very intentional about supporting students and your staff. How do you keep your own cup full?

ECHOLS: Being a principal can be a lonely job. I鈥檓 very blessed to have my husband, a principal, to share ideas with. I also have a good group of principals around the city with whom I collaborate often. Having that support is very important.

COLLINS: What are the greatest challenges you鈥檙e facing in your practice?

ECHOLS: Personally, I am eager to get into the classrooms to support teachers. I want to be in there, and when you become a principal, you just never know what the day is going to be like. You can say you鈥檙e going to Mrs. Johnson鈥檚 room at a certain time, and then you have an email, or a meeting, or a parent comes in. Things pop up, and you鈥檙e not able to get there. That鈥檚 hard for me. 

And it鈥檚 been a challenge since Covid. With the social-emotional aspects of learning how to communicate, share, and play with other children, it鈥檚 been tough figuring out what works and what doesn鈥檛 work. And it鈥檚 not just here in Arkansas; it鈥檚 everywhere.

COLLINS: What advice do you have for other first-year school leaders鈥攐r teachers? 

ECHOLS: For teachers: Never be afraid to ask questions. We鈥檝e all had a first year. You鈥檙e going to figure it out. Ask questions of your colleagues, your peers, and the principal. Remember that you were hired for a reason. You stood out in the interview process, and we hired you because we knew what you were capable of and saw your heart for children.

That鈥檚 the same for a first-year administrator. Educators have a calling, and it鈥檚 very evident when people have a passion for kids. We must do everything to benefit students鈥攖o make sure our kids are safe, learning, and loved. 

We鈥檙e all in this together.

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