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Schools Struggle to Support LGBTQ Students

Recent research finds the majority of teachers want to help LGBTQ students but don鈥檛 always know how.

April 19, 2018

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Pinning Roddy Biggs聽against a locker, a student whaled on him, giving him a black eye, fracturing his eye socket, and bruising his ribs. It wasn鈥檛 a lone incident for Biggs, who came out as gay to his Tennessee high school when he was a freshman.

鈥淚 didn鈥檛 really do the best in school because of it,鈥 recalls Biggs, now 23, who says homophobic slurs, death threats, and shoves were commonplace. 鈥淚 had depression and panic attacks and all that stuff along the way.鈥

Biggs can still remember the teachers who ignored the bullying or simply said, 鈥淭hat鈥檚 not cool,鈥 and walked away. But there were also the educators who tried to help, like the science teacher who took him to the principal鈥檚 office after he was beaten and sat with him for more than an hour during class time. Oftentimes, though, the best efforts of teachers were stymied by district or state regulations that stopped them from doing much more.

Elementary school students in Madison, Wisconsin, form a peace sign as part of a Unity Day celebration.
Brenda O'Connell
Elementary school students in Madison, Wisconsin, form a peace sign as part of a Unity Day celebration.

鈥淢ost of the educators wanted to help, but did not know how or were limited in what they could do,鈥 says聽Biggs, referring to Tennessee鈥檚 lack of legislation preventing the bullying of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer or questioning (LGBTQ) students. Tennessee is one of 32 states that do not have such protections in place.

From cyberharassment to physical violence, for many schools, but bullying LGBTQ students in particular is more likely to be ignored or mishandled by staff, according to . 聽

The researchers surveyed nearly 2,500 teachers and students across the country and found聽that teachers were less comfortable intervening with bullying due to sexual orientation and gender identity than with bullying based on聽race, ability, and religion. And while 83 percent of educators felt that they should provide a safe environment for their LGBTQ students鈥攂y displaying visible symbols of support or disciplining students for using homophobic language, for example鈥攐nly half had taken action to do so, according to the , an organization that helps K鈥12 schools create safe environments for LGBTQ students.

Teacher Intervention Reported by Students

This lack of聽support for LGBTQ students stems from a variety of causes.

Some teachers reported feeling uncomfortable talking to their students about sexuality due to their beliefs or perceptions about what鈥檚 appropriate鈥攐ften conflating sexual orientation with sex鈥攚hile others felt pressure from administrators or parents to keep tight-lipped. And a lack of professional development on how to address LGBTQ issues and bullying has left teachers ill-equipped to establish LGBTQ-inclusive聽cultures or to identify anti-LGBTQ behaviors and harassment. Meanwhile, the emergence of highly politicized issues聽like allowing transgender students to use bathrooms aligned with their identity聽has聽raised the LGBTQ profile nationally, but made constructive dialogue harder.

The Need for Training

For Loretta Farrell Khayam, a high school math teacher in Northern Virginia, the hesitation to support LGBTQ students reflects a simple lack of training.

鈥淲e鈥檝e had no guidance from administration on how to handle students transitioning,鈥 said Khayam, who wants to help a transgender student at her school. 鈥淚鈥檓 not a young, hip teacher. I don鈥檛 know what to say or do. It would be nice to hear from our administration鈥攂oth school and district level鈥攚hat we as a school and a school system will do to support these students.鈥

Students laugh while attending a youth summit for LGBTQ youth.
Courtesy of GLSEN
Students attend an LGBTQ summit for youth. LGBTQ students often have to go outside their schools to find support.

While there has been an increased interest in training educators on topics like inherent bias and equity and inclusion, these trainings often do not include LGBTQ issues because most school systems aren鈥檛 requesting it, according to educators and advocacy groups. And when teachers have asked for training, some report that they鈥檝e faced reluctance from administrators who said they need to focus on other priorities.

Melissa Joy Bollow Tempel said she encountered pushback when she wanted to start including professional development on gender identity in the training she provided as a culturally responsive teacher-leader in the Milwaukee Public Schools district. Bollow Tempel had to go outside the district to receive training herself, and her offers to share what she had learned were repeatedly resisted.

Even within the 18 states with anti-bullying laws aimed at protecting both sexual orientation and gender identity, and within聽鈥渂lue bubbles鈥 like California, both discomfort and neglect are common, according to Vincent Pompei, director of the Youth Well-Being Project at the聽, the largest LGBTQ civil rights organization in the U.S. Pompei noted that attendees at a recent training in Southern California couldn鈥檛 differentiate sexual orientation from gender identity.

Students Taught an LGBTQ-Inclusive Curriculum

鈥淓ducators still have a tremendous amount of worry around LGBTQ inclusion鈥攖hey fear parent or community pushback, and are uncertain if they鈥檇 be supported by school or district leadership if they took action,鈥 Pompei said. 鈥淲e say students need to see visible signs of a safe space, but educators also need to know that their administration supports them and will have their back if a parent or community member with anti-LGBTQ views complains.鈥

Avoidable Struggles

When LGBTQ students feel the lack of staff support at school, the impact can be substantial.

Lesbian, gay, and bisexual students are聽 to be bullied as non-LGBTQ peers, and they鈥檙e聽more likely to miss school and聽almost five times as likely to 鈥攖he number is even higher for 鈥攁ccording to a major survey of 15,600 high school students by the .听Another study found that 聽reported higher levels of substance abuse and risky behaviors than heterosexual students who were bullied.

Students Hearing Biased Language at School

鈥淢y middle school didn鈥檛 have any procedures, and my teachers didn鈥檛 know what to do,鈥 reflects Miles Sanchez, a ninth-grade bisexual and transgender student in Colorado. Sanchez says he repeatedly went to administrators to ask them to establish policies to protect LGBTQ students from bullying. 鈥淚 feel like a lot of my struggles could have been avoided if educators were trained in dealing with bullying for all types of students,鈥 he said.

The problem is not restricted to聽students.

Teachers like Hanan Huneidi, a 7th- through 12-grade teacher for at-risk students in the Bay Area, California, says she feels that if she includes LGBTQ content in her lessons, staff and students assume she鈥檚 trying to push a particular agenda because she鈥檚 gay. Huneidi says she has at times avoided the topic because she doesn鈥檛 always want to 鈥渁utomatically be the representative of all gay things.鈥

Last year, a frustrated Huneidi told colleagues they needed to 鈥渃arry the torch too鈥 in disciplining students for using homophobic hate language, which is against school rules.

Creating a Safe Space

To address the need for more awareness, organizations like and 聽are providing professional development and support for K鈥12 classrooms. Resources provided by these organizations include lesson plans, workshops, and .

And some districts, like the Madison Metropolitan School District in Madison, Wisconsin, are embedding professional development directly into their schools. The district has a staff social worker in charge of LGBTQ-specific staff training and family support, and last year the district聽adopted the LGBTQ professional development program .听

Staff from Welcoming Schools read 鈥淚 Am Jazz,鈥 a story about a transgender girl, to a kindergarten class in Madison, Wisconsin.
Jennifer Herdina
Staff from Welcoming Schools read 鈥淚 Am Jazz,鈥 a story about a transgender girl, to a kindergarten class in Madison, Wisconsin.

As part of the program, district staff members鈥攊ncluding school psychologists, social workers, and teachers鈥攔eceived training so they can coach their colleagues on topics like embracing family diversity and preventing bias-based bullying. The district also hosts parent and student panels to share LGBTQ students鈥 experiences with staff, and community events, like聽readings of children鈥檚 books with LGBTQ characters.

But according to LGBTQ advocates, it doesn鈥檛 take a top-down approach to make a difference in students鈥 lives鈥攈elp聽can come from a single educator.

A safe space sign at Marysville Elementary School in Portland, Oregon.
Brett Bingham
A safe space sign at at Marysville Elementary School in Portland, Oregon.

Sometimes it鈥檚 as simple as putting up safe space signs, or a sign that says a classroom or school is welcoming of all identities; reprimanding a student who uses the phrase聽鈥渢hat鈥檚 so gay鈥; or reading a book with an LGBTQ protagonist. Small changes from one person can often lead to bigger ones from more.

Dan Ryder, a teacher at Mount聽Blue High School in Farmington, Maine, said he鈥檚 personally seen change happen slowly over the nearly two decades that he鈥檚 worked at his school. He remembers the days of 鈥渄on鈥檛 ask, don鈥檛 tell鈥 and the widespread use of homophobic slurs. Now, he says, students in the school鈥檚 tech program are making signs to affix to new gender-neutral bathrooms of their own accord.

鈥淚鈥檓 doing my best to show them that even though I may be a straight, cis, married white male, we are all fairly complex beings that change over time and have experiences that may unite us more than we realize,鈥 he says of his own efforts to help students. 鈥淥ften we just need someone to say, 鈥楬ey, you are who you are. I get it. It鈥檚 OK by me. And I want to be helpful to you in whatever way that means for you.鈥欌

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